can be a scary thought!
the hectic completion of the holiday season and the onset of easing back into routines.
I can recall the year as a teenager when everyone forgot my birthday (with my
parents as the exception). I can also recall the year my husband planned an
amazing surprise birthday party for me. It used to be all or nothing but, as I grow older, it tends to have found a lovely middle ground I like to call ‘low
introvert and an extrovert. I can be outgoing in a social situation where I’m
one-on-one with someone new or with close friends, but I can also be 110%
content portraying the fly on a wall during an eventful evening, standing in the midst of buzzing conversations from
those chattering around me. This is why a low-key birthday is pretty great.
It’s chill, easy, and all the attention of a large amount of people isn’t focused
on me—which tends to weird me out pretty fast.
Be that as it may, it’s nice to be
celebrated! This is the fun part of having a birthday! Taking the time to
celebrate individuals just for being born—just for being themselves! If we
truly saw ourselves the way God does, we would think every day is our birthday! With that thought in mind, taking some time one day a year seems like a great idea.
Celebrating someone on his or her special
day can be an amazing thing. I think the most important part of celebrating
someone is to honour them in a way they find special. Lavishing someone with
gifts when they are against consumerism may not be the best idea! In the same light, a simple happy birthday text, when you know an individual is 100% gifts or
quality time as a love language, also perhaps isn’t the best way. If you know
someone well enough, you can do something small that will show them you
believe they are worthy of celebration. That small act can leave a significant
mark in making them feel special on their day.
Growing up in my family, birthdays were
always celebrated. As a kid I can recall my mother making me an epic birthday
cake with a marshmallow bunny on it, or a cake shaped as a teddy bear (enter;
where I get my creativity in the kitchen from!). She created a poster that
could be used year after year with the simple switch of a number (crafty and
economical), and would go with the staple balloons and streamers. One simple
gift was all that was given and, looking back, I wouldn’t have had it any other way. Birthday
parties with a few friends would be thrown and, without fail, almost every year
an epic snow storm would happen around my birthday to really attempt to throw a
wrench into any already made plains. Reflecting on birthdays past is fun and
makes you realize what really makes you feel special—and how you would like to
be celebrated in the future.
This year for my birthday, a couple of my close friends took me to an old-fashioned tea house. We drank tea out of fancy china and indulged in freshly baked scones with homemade jam. It was lovely. It was very ‘me’ and it was nice to be celebrated. The attendees both gave me cat cards that meowed happy birthday– which are sitting on display as I write, smiling at me from across the room. It’s like they are begging to meow to me… which actually just freaks out our real life cat.
of years past, it’s knowing someone took the time to think of me which makes me
feel noteworthy on the day of my birth. Kind words written in a card, a text
message with more than the letters ‘HBD’, a small gift chosen specifically
because the giver thought of me when they saw it, or a friend who isn’t a baker
baking birthday cookies. As I always tend to say, it’s the little things that
make the biggest difference.
family member comes up this year, I encourage you to really take a moment and
think about how you can show the person in your life how much you appreciate
them, how special you truly believe they are, and how you are thankful that
there is one day a year made specifically to celebrate their unique awesomeness
given to them by God. A birthday happens just once a year, take the time to
make people feel as precious as they really are.